No need to feel bad about not checking back there are plenty of other things in life that are more important. I see that myself now.Originally Posted by Magneto3521
At the moment I would love to have her back but there is a part of me that wouldn't take her back in case she did this to me again. So I'm happy to keep her as a friend. If she decides she wants to make it work then it's up to her to initiate it. But for now I'm gonna get out there and try the waters.
If she does decide she wants me as more than a friend then I will consider it but I really don't know if i'd take her back now. I still miss her like hell and keep thinking about all the good times we had. But then I think about all the bad times and they seem to almost balance each other out. I truely think that the reason it went wrong was that we spent practically all of our free time together and as such we were always under each others skin, and irritating each other. I know if we did get back together that I would go about it differently this time.
Not as easy as you say. When I am hammered one of two things happen (or both):Originally Posted by iball
1. I make an a**e of myself.
2. I throw up.
So getting hammered may have helped with the pain but it doesn't help with the moving on. Like I said earlier I'm off out clubbing tonight, going on the pull. All I got to do is moderate what I drink so that the above two things don't hinder my chances. If I find someone it will be on a see-what-happens basis, not an everything-or-nothing basis like the last relationship.
Anyway they say what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. I believe that is true now and have learnt a lot about how to go about relationships and life in general. I thank her for that, and also all the guys and girls (women aswell, just to please myst) of PSPU that have offered their advice. Anyway gonna get ready to go out and I'll check back once done.