after 1 day this is what i figured out:
*need to "downgrade" to 3.60 m33 not possible without fat psp!
on the fat psp:
*go to Gamestop "rent" buy and return a used fat psp that has 1.5-2.0 fw
*downgrade and then upgrade to 3.52 m33-4
*use pandora gui app to program your pandora fat battery and magic stick
on the slim :
*follow the 3.60 m33 instructions.
i got my slim with it !!!!!!
thanks to all the ppl that wrote the guides TY!